The best gifts for in laws in Pakistan are simple, generous and easy to share: a shawl or perfume set for your saas, a kurta or grooming tray for your sasur, jewellery or makeup for your nand or bhabhi, and a dry fruit tray or chocolate hamper for the whole sasural. At Send My Gift these start at Rs 5,099 for a Layers cake and Rs 5,599 for a scarf gift bag, and most family baskets and gift hampers run from Rs 10,000 to Rs 24,999.
Whether you are a new bahu visiting your sasural, a damad sending something to your wife's parents on Eid, or a nand welcoming your brother's bride, the aim is the same: to show respect and that you thought about them. Below are ideas by person, occasion and budget, delivered in Lahore and Gujranwala.
In short
- For your saas: a shawl, scarf, perfume or flowers, from Rs 5,599.
- For your sasur: a kurta set or a grooming tray, around Rs 15,000.
- For the whole sasural: one dry fruit or chocolate hamper everyone can share.
- Theme hampers and custom cakes need 2 to 3 days. Flower boxes, chocolate baskets and accessory boxes can go the same day, subject to availability.
Gifts for Your Mother in Law (Saas)
Something your saas can wear or use every day usually means more than something showy: a soft shawl in winter, a good fragrance, or flowers for the drawing room.
The white shawl box at Rs 14,599 is our first choice for a saas. It holds a white shawl, pearl drop earrings, a gold watch, a White Oud fragrance, KitKat Chunky bars and peach mini roses in a cream box. For a smaller gift, the scarf gift bag at Rs 5,599 has two soft scarves in purple and blush. If she loves flowers, the white hatbox of pink roses, carnations and blue hydrangea at Rs 11,199 looks lovely on a side table. For a big occasion, the accessories tray at Rs 21,499 holds pearl bangles, earrings, hair accessories and perfumes.
Gifts for Your Father in Law (Sasur)
Many fathers in law will say they need nothing. A kurta, a fragrance or a grooming set is practical, and he will remember it came from you.
The kurta set at Rs 14,999 has a black embroidered J. kurta, a J. perfume, a belt and a wallet with white roses on a lit display tray. It is named for Eid but suits any visit. The grooming tray at Rs 15,499 holds Nivea lotion, shower gel and deodorant, a face scrub, a grey beanie cap for winter and a chocolate bar, and it can go the same day, subject to availability. For a sweet tooth, the round basket at Rs 15,499 is full of imported chocolates, from Raffaello to KitKat.
Gifts for Your Sister in Law: Nand and Bhabhi
A sister in law might be your husband's sister (nand), your brother's wife (bhabhi), or the wife of your husband's brother (jethani or devrani). She is often close to you in age, so choose something more personal: jewellery, makeup or a fragrance.
For a nand, the gold jewellery bouquet at Rs 8,999 fans out earrings, necklaces and charms against soft pink roses. If she loves makeup, the Huda Beauty bouquet at Rs 14,499 holds an eyeshadow palette, a Maybelline foundation, a MAC compact, lipstick, gloss, brushes and Ferrero Rocher.
For a new bhabhi, the clear box at Rs 12,499 with a Sapphire perfume, a body spray, gold jhumka earrings and a chocolate bar is a warm welcome from her new family. For the wedding week itself, see our guide to gifts for your sister's or brother's wedding.
Gifts for Your Brother in Law (Devar)
Your devar, your husband's younger brother, is often the most relaxed relationship in the sasural. A watch or a fragrance suited to his age is a safe choice, and the same idea works for a jeth, your husband's elder brother, or for your wife's brothers if you are the damad.
The wicker basket at Rs 9,499 holds a silver bracelet watch in a box, a Rhythm For Him body spray, two Cadbury Dairy Milk bars and a satin pouch. It can go the same day, subject to availability. For more ideas, browse our gifts for him.
One Gift for the Whole Family
When you visit the sasural, one large hamper for the whole family is often the best choice. Everyone shares it, and nobody is left out.
The dry fruit hamper at Rs 12,899 is a wooden tray of golden raisins, cashews, dried figs and pistachios with Snickers, Galaxy and Oreo. It carries an Eid Mubarak label. The double shelf hamper at Rs 15,999 holds chocolates, biscuits, Pringles, Lay's and juice on a two level wooden stand. Both need 2 to 3 days. For something sooner, the black and gold chocolate basket at Rs 13,999 and the Cadbury and Ferrero Rocher wooden basket at Rs 10,999 can both go the same day, subject to availability. In winter, the cozy set at Rs 11,599 pairs a burgundy shawl with a tin of mixed nuts and dried fruit.
Gifts by Occasion
Your First Visit to the Sasural After the Nikah
After the nikah or the rukhsati, new couples visit each other's homes for the first dinner invitations, and take something with them. Flowers with chocolate is the classic choice: easy to carry in, easy to share, and right for any family. If you are the groom visiting your wife's parents for the first time, a family hamper with a cake is a generous first gift.
Eid with the Sasural
On the first Eid after a wedding, gifts usually go to everyone: one for your saas and sasur, something for each nand or devar, and a hamper or cake for the house. The Eid box at Rs 12,499 holds Nishat unstitched fabric, a gold necklace, jhumka earrings, Rhode lip balm and hand cream and a body mist. We deliver on Eid days, but charges on Eid and other public holidays may differ, so order a few days early. See more Eid gifts for family.
Their Birthday or Wedding Anniversary
A cake is the easiest way to remember your in laws' birthday or anniversary. The Mom and Dad anniversary cake at Rs 9,999 is ivory fondant with a pink bow and pink roses beside it; ask us on WhatsApp to write Ammi Abbu or their names instead. Custom cakes need 2 to 3 days. If you remember on the day, a Layers cake such as the pistachio cake at Rs 5,099 can still go out the same day when ordered before 3 PM, subject to availability.
Sending a Gift from Abroad
Many sons and daughters in law abroad send gifts to the sasural for Eid, birthdays and weddings. Pay by bank transfer, Wise or Remitly and confirm on WhatsApp with the address, the date and a phone number for someone in the house. We send you photos and a video of the gift before it leaves. See sending gifts from abroad for the full steps.
Budget Guide for In Law Gifts
There is no fixed amount to spend on in laws, and a thoughtful choice says more than the price. Here is what each budget gets you:
| Budget | Saas or sasur | Nand, bhabhi or devar | The whole family |
|---|---|---|---|
| Rs 5,000 to Rs 10,000 | Scarf gift bag, Rs 5,599. Mom and Dad cake, Rs 9,999 | Gold jewellery bouquet, Rs 8,999. Watch and perfume basket, Rs 9,499 | Layers pistachio cake, Rs 5,099 |
| Rs 10,000 to Rs 13,000 | Hatbox of pink roses and hydrangea, Rs 11,199 | Sapphire perfume and jhumka box, Rs 12,499. Eid box with Nishat fabric, Rs 12,499 | Cadbury and Ferrero Rocher basket, Rs 10,999. Shawl and mixed nuts set, Rs 11,599. Dry fruit hamper, Rs 12,899 |
| Rs 13,000 to Rs 16,000 | White shawl box, Rs 14,599. Kurta set, Rs 14,999. Grooming tray, Rs 15,499 | Huda Beauty makeup bouquet, Rs 14,499 | Black and gold chocolate basket, Rs 13,999. White roses and Ferrero Rocher basket, Rs 14,999. Double shelf hamper, Rs 15,999 |
| Rs 16,000 and above | Accessories and perfume tray, Rs 21,499 | Pair two gifts from the rows above | A hamper with a Layers cake |
Our minimum order is Rs 4,999, so every gift above can be ordered on its own.
Same Day or 2 to 3 Days: Delivery in Lahore and Gujranwala
Most gifts in this guide, the flower boxes, chocolate baskets, accessory boxes, bouquets and the Layers cake, can go the same day in Lahore and Gujranwala when you order before 3 PM, subject to availability, and arrive between 3 PM and 8 PM. The kurta set, the dry fruit hamper, the double shelf hamper and custom cakes need 2 to 3 days.
Delivery is free on orders above Rs 9,999 within 8 km by road of our Lahore branch or 5 km of our Gujranwala branch, Rs 999 below that inside those areas. Further out, delivery is Rs 100 per km for the whole trip from our branch, with a minimum of Rs 999 on orders up to Rs 9,999. Midnight delivery, between 10 PM and 12 AM, is Rs 999 extra; order by 3 PM. In Pakistan, pay by bank transfer, EasyPaisa or JazzCash before delivery.
Tip: Add a custom printed card for Rs 199, in English or Urdu, with their name, your message and your name. For a saas or sasur, a short dua or a simple line of thanks for welcoming you reads better than anything clever.
More to browse: our flower shop in Lahore, with local roses from Rs 2,999 and the Layers cake price list.
Prefer to collect? Pick up from our Lahore branch at 555-B2 Abu Bakar Road or our Gujranwala branch at 172-X Kashmir Road, Peoples Colony. Message us on WhatsApp to arrange a time; the Rs 4,999 minimum order applies to pickup too.
For the groom's family's gifts to the dulhan, read wedding gifts for the bride. Browse more gifts for parents in Lahore and Eid gifts, or message us on WhatsApp at +923344434999 with the date, the address and your budget, and we will help you choose.
